Raw LLM Responses

Lots of guys just don't talk about it when it is them who is being cheated on and the self-reporting stats show that more women are. When I ...emotionally? It's complicated... was unfaithful to my ex, and he had been profoundly unkind to me and made it very clear to me that I did not deserve intimacy and kindness. It disgusted him, just for me. The few times I thought we were having an intimate emotional sexual moment he called me other women's names. Women who do deserve it. The moment we married I no longer deserved affection. While he was proud in front of other men of his wife, it stopped there. I wish I had realized how much I could not live with it, that being strong and capable wasn't enough before I fell in love with someone offering me affection. Finding out how desperately I needed affection was a rough lesson. I was not just a strong capable woman who could do it all - or I was and it was killing me. I offended against my values but also found out I am not a brilliant moist robot. I cheated myself first, I should never have stayed and relied on my ability to live through it. Mere strength to survive a hostile environment to my spirit is not a good excuse, but it does make me an excellent example of how women cheat because there is no connection to their spouse. I killed it dead trying to live with what he was to me. The standards men are held to are insultingly low, it is up to them to fix that. Fighting to bury the bar for me as an act of equality won't be of interest to me.