Raw LLM Responses

A couple of days ago I asked ChatGPT, "What does it mean for a woman when she is called dyke?" and upon clicking on the send button it showed me warning about policies being violated (before sending the request to server) if I proceeded. I clicked cancelled because I don't want my account to be on some internal blacklist or something like that I fear. I asked because in the movie - "Enough Said" the character Eva (played by Julia Louis-Dreyfus) was called dyke by her female friend Sarah (played by Toni Collette) when Sarah realized that her daughter was spending more time with Eva than her own mother(Sarah). Eva was able to take care of Sarah's daughter like her own daughter in the absence of Sarah, and Sarah's daughter had started to spend more time with Eva rather than her own mother. Hence once day Sarah couldn't control her insecurity and called her friend Eva the word "dyke" and told her to leave her daughter alone and take care of her(Eva's) own daughter (Eva has a daughter too and both women's daughters are friend). And Eva surprisingly got hurt that her own friend had called something derogatory like that. I am not remotely an American culture wise and I wanted to understand how would it feel if someone call you that in USA (I am male/straight lol but why not?, why is the word so offensive to her/woman?). I could have googled that and known the explicit meaning but I wanted someone to explain me more than just the raw meaning that's found in the dictionary. At this point I am not sure who's wrong. Am I wrong to ask that question to a "dialog" based A.I.? Is the question that offensive to begin with? If you aren't allowed to converse with the world's largest LLM in a dialog way, then what's the point of this? Who am I even offending in the first place? I didn't include name of a person. The question was "abstract". It seems to me that the question is automatically taken as a offense from the asker (ChatGPT user) by the AI ethics team to begin with this is